Tuesday Chats - Pursuing Your Dreams

Hi guys,

I've decided to start something called 'Tuesday Chats' where most Tuesday I will write up a non beauty or fashion related post based on a different subjects. 

One of the most important things in life is to do what you want and to not let anyone stop you from doing that. It can have a really big impact on your life if you do not do so. For example, if you pick the GCSEs or A Levels that your friends pick and not that you particularly like, it can really impact your future. If there was a job you wanted to do but you didn't do the GCSEs or A Levels that are needed in order to get this job, just because your friends were in that class, the future that you hoped to have, might not happen. 

Its important to pursue your dreams. If you want to take part in that play, go for it. If you want to apply for that job, go for it. Do what you want, not what your friends or family want, even if that's 'different', It's your life and you can achieve anything if you put your mind to it.

You should respect what others want to do with their lives and they should respect what you want to do with yours. If your friends don't, you should really rethink about calling them friends. It could majorly affect your future and obviously you want your future to be the best it can be. So go for it, pursue your dreams and do what you want to do. 

I love you guys, 

Yourself

Hi guys, 

I thought I would write up a little post for you today.

Many people look in the mirror and don't think well of themselves. They base their lives on the people around them and how they want to be better than them or as popular/attractive/kind as they are. 

"The only person you should try to be better than is the person you were yesterday." In my opinion, these are words to live by. You shouldn't try and be anyone else, but yourself. If someone you want to be like is telling you otherwise then they are not worth looking up to. 

Wanting to be someone else is a sign of a lack of self-confidence, but even that under-confident person is I'm sure a lot better than the person you want to be. Over-confidence is in some ways good, for example, on stage. But being over-confident in yourself, is not something that should be looked up to. Its important to be happy with who you are, but to be happy and respectful for who the people around you are too,

It doesn't matter what you look like, what background you come from, what sex you are or what hobbies you have, what really matters, is what is inside of your heart. You can better yourself as a person if that's what you want, but you can't change who are so you might as well enjoy being you. If somebody judges you for that then they obviously are not happy enough within themselves to let you be happy. But be kind to the unkind people, they are the ones that need it the most.

Do what you want and be who you want to be. Don't let anyone else persuade you otherwise.