Hey guys!
I do apologize but this post is more on the sad side of things.
We are all human. We are all different, but at the same time, equal. You should be treated no different to anyone else and no one has the right to change that.
Even if it's just the tiniest remark, you can crush someones confidence. Never point out someones insecurities because they are either already super insecure about it already or you have caused it to become an insecurity. I have noticed lots of people around me not caring about the feeling of others. It's not right. Have we not learnt our lesson about bullying? Have we not seen what it can do to people? People have got to the point of taking there own lives and even though not physically, if you said one horrible thing to them, you are responsible. You're probably thinking the person that you say or do things to will 'never do that' well that's the worse case scenario, just ruining there confidence or making them feel badly about themselves is bad enough, you should feel guilty for just doing that.
I am definitely not saying that I have never said anything bad to anyone. Believe me, a couple of years ago I was horrible to people, but I will say this, I have grown up. Not in the sense that I have stopped messing around, being weird or just being the silly, goofy person that I am. But in the sense that I have experience pain, and have realized that there are people out there that are right now and that some people are so sensitive that you can just say one tiny comment to them and they will break down. I have become a lot of a better person this year I think and have recently realized that it is so important to try and be happy. I am still the anxious, worrying person that I will always be but I am going to try and keep others happy as well as myself. That if someone is upset it isn't because of me (not purposely anyway) and if they are upset I will be there for them no matter what.
It is important to remember you are not alone and there are so many caring people out there that believe you are beautiful inside and out. Keep smiling.
I love you all.
I am definitely not saying that I have never said anything bad to anyone. Believe me, a couple of years ago I was horrible to people, but I will say this, I have grown up. Not in the sense that I have stopped messing around, being weird or just being the silly, goofy person that I am. But in the sense that I have experience pain, and have realized that there are people out there that are right now and that some people are so sensitive that you can just say one tiny comment to them and they will break down. I have become a lot of a better person this year I think and have recently realized that it is so important to try and be happy. I am still the anxious, worrying person that I will always be but I am going to try and keep others happy as well as myself. That if someone is upset it isn't because of me (not purposely anyway) and if they are upset I will be there for them no matter what.
It is important to remember you are not alone and there are so many caring people out there that believe you are beautiful inside and out. Keep smiling.
I love you all.
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