Judgemental Minds

Hi guys!


I know I have been doing quite a lot of advice/serious blog posts recently but this will be the last one for a while. I just wanted to talk about something that absolutely blows me away how often it occurs.

That something is people judging others for who they are, for example; race, religion, gender, sexuality, appearance etc. I honestly just don't understand why you would do that. I spend most my life judging myself and telling myself that everyone around me is judging me. But, I would never I even think to judge someone else for who they are.

I recently watched Connor Franta's coming out video and it inspired me. He was so scared to actually admit to himself who he is but has built up the strength to do it and is proud to be that person and I am so proud of him for conquering that.

There are always rumours that go around schools, communities, work places etc, about what religion someone is, what sexuality they are and so on but really why does it matter? It is going to make no difference to you or affect your life whatsoever and even if the rumours are true you should not treat that person differently.

Especially at my age, 15, I feel like people are pressurised into doing things they aren't ready for or deciding who they are which they most likely are still not ready for. I wish we lived in a world where everyone accepted everyone for who they were and treated them equally. Not a world where the word 'gay' is used as an insult. It discusts me.

So please if you can't quite decide what the feelings you're having mean or who you are, then never feel rushed into making that decision. And, if you have a friend who you know is feeling that way, please support them so that they feel more happy to open up to you if needed.

I love you guys!!